when downsizing goes wrong

Don’t make these classic errors

A recent article (How fair is the Age Pension) prompted quite a few Retirement Essentials members to share their (not-so-good) experiences of downsizing.

Here’s what you told us (edited for reasons of space):

Helly says no way!

Does your comment that ‘they *CAN* downsize’ …take into account the fact that:

  • there are almost no suitable residences available to downsize to, in the first place 
  • the massive cost of actually moving house – particularly if you are older / unable to lift and move things yourself and have ZERO relatives to help you – meaning $$$$$ to pay someone to move everything and 
  • the massive amount in Stamp Duty plus real estate agent fees plus the cost of doing any repairs required and the cost of modifying the residence you are moving to? 

It is simply not worth the cost of moving – that is why older people stay where they are! You end up losing a lot of money moving, then you have an asset worth less – so your options for reverse mortgaging have decreased dramatically. 

Robyn agrees:

Amen! I ‘downsized’ to purchasing land and building a smaller house with two bedrooms plus a smaller sewing/single bedroom. The cost has been astonishing, as delay after delay has stretched out to 19 months and still not completed. Storage fees, accommodation and other associated costs have made the ‘downsizing’ an expensive nightmare. I cannot apply for a part-Age Pension until final costs are calculated because of daily changes. 

Editor’s Note: If Robyn is eligible for a part Age Pension she should apply immediately and then update Centrelink as her circumstances change. Not doing so will mean she misses out on any Age Pension she is currently eligible to receive.

And Christine feels trapped with two properties instead of one

I am in a similar position. I am stuck with an unfinished house (downsizing), am paying two lots of rates, electricity and water, and living off my savings (fortunately I have some), drawing down my super, but cannot get any pension because the house I am building is deemed ‘an investment’. This build has been going for four years and the builder appears to have no appetite to complete it and there is no redress to this.

These comments caught our attention as they share the very real experience that downsizing has meant for some retirees. And yes, there can be a tendency for those in financial services to suggest downsizing will solve a lot of problems in retirement. And while it is true that leveraging the value of your primary property may translate into higher retirement income, the way you go about downsizing can lead to good – and bad – outcomes. Things can go well, but they can also go very wrong. Today we explore what happens in the latter situation.

But first, a cautionary note – the following overview is not a suggestion that you should not downsize. It is an attempt to share some of the pitfalls of downsizing, so that you can learn from the mistakes of others and avoid them! Downsizing can work very well – but you need to do a lot of homework first. 

What could possibly go wrong?

There are five main ways that downsizing can lead to disappointment. These can be categorised as the following:

  1. Emotional decision making
  2. Financial oversights
  3. Cost and/or time blowout
  4. If your household changes
  5. If you were moving for someone else’s benefit

Here’s how this played out for some downsizers, with names changed for confidentiality:

The wrong move emotionally

When two members of a couple have fundamentally different views on where they should live, it’s difficult to come up with a workable solution. But forcing someone to move is likely to lead to grief. This was the case with Alfred who moved with his wife Robyn from a small weatherboard home with a verandah and garden to a third-storey apartment with no outdoor space. He missed his garden and birdsong badly, lost motivation and social connection in the new neighbourhood and died within a couple of years. His only daughter (from a previous marriage) can barely bring herself to visit Robyn as she thinks the move was a major factor in his decline.

How to avoid this problem

Making joint decisions is not necessarily easy, but compromising totally to please the other half is also not necessarily a good solution. Talk it over, talk it out, try to find a middle way.

When moving leads to a financial mistake

Anika and Ben were in total agreement about the size, nature and location of their new home, so when they found the 2-bedroom apartment on the coast they quickly purchased it. They were equally efficient in listing and selling their suburban family home. They then put the proceeds into a term deposit account. But as part-Age Pensioners, what they had failed to think through was the ramifications of an extra $300,000 on their pension entitlement. 

How to avoid (or minimise) this error

Selling a home means moving from an exempt asset to an assessable one. There are many ways to minimise the full impact on any Age Pension entitlements, but you need to consider each and every one before deciding where to move the proceeds of a property sale. Be aware, also that the asset exemption period is 24 months (possibly 36 months depending upon your circumstances). Using this money to top up super can also be tax-effective, depending upon your situation. 

When things take longer than they should

As with Robyn and Christine, this is an all-too-common experience post-Covid, when construction delays continue to plague new builds. Similarly costs can be volatile, with budgets blowing out considerably as critical materials or white goods are in short supply and therefore much more expensive than anticipated. 

Is this avoidable?

You cannot entirely avoid these issues but working with a trusted and reliable builder can help overcome many of them. Calculating building or moving costs ultra conservatively up front can save a lot of stress – as can including clauses in your contract that means your builder is financially committed to finishing within the expected time. 

When your household changes

When we make a move from one home to the next, it’s usually based upon the premise that the current occupants are moving together. But this doesn’t always last. Couples who move may break up and suddenly a single is in a home planned for two. The reverse can happen and singles can repartner, quickly finding their ‘personal space’ is all but gone as someone else moves in. Adult children have a habit of boomeranging back – often with a partner, even children, in tow. These relationship shifts can make the dream downsize suddenly unsuitable.

How can you avoid this?

Unfortunately this is Life with a capital L, so very hard to predict. But you can think about these things before committing. If you are aged, say, 60+, will the new property suit a single as well as a couple and a couple as well as a single? What are your boundaries with adult kids who may wish to return? Make them known!

You moved for the wrong reason or motivation

Your motivation to move may be very noble. Perhaps you believe that downsizing will enable you to be a bigger ‘Bank of Mum and Dad’ for adult children who are keen to purchase their own home? But moving for another adult’s benefit is only fine if the extra money is used as originally envisaged. It’s not okay if suddenly your adult son decides he wants to use your funds to pursue his music career in Scandinavia, see you later! 

Can you avoid this trap?

There are many financial ramifications here. Insisting upon a contract for inter-family loans is just good sense. Another consideration might be if you are offered a granny flat in exchange for funds from the sale of your standalone home. You will need to check the detail of ownership so that you have security of tenure as long as you need it.

Can you answer these questions?

In summary, downsizing can bring rich rewards. It can also be a less than satisfying experience. It’s great for some, but not for everyone.

Here’s a short checklist to help you work your way through some of the key decision points and how to navigate them:

  • Why are you moving? Are all householders in agreement? It’s fine to have many reasons to move, but are your priorities aligned?
  • How much homework have you done on your proposed new neighbourhood – if it’s further than 50 kilometres away should you test it out with a short holiday stay?
  • Do you have a realistic idea of the costs of selling, moving, repurchasing? Are you across all fees, commissions and taxes? Have you had a financial professional confirm what you believe will be your net gain?
  • If you receive a full or part-Age Pension, do you understand if this financial gain could change your entitlement? This can happen even if you gift the profit, so it’s important to understand the Centrelink rules.
  • If the plan is to use excess funds to top up your super, have you done your homework here also? Are you using the Downsizer Contribution? Are you hoping to use Bring Forward contributions? Are you also interested in how the Carry Forward rules might suit you? Our super contributions article covers these in more detail
  • Will your will still be relevant in the aftermath of this change of property?
  • If you are unsure about whether downsizing will work for you, have you explored other ways to access equity in your home such as the Home Equity Access Scheme (HEAS) or a reverse mortgage? 

Retirement Essentials supports downsizers in four main ways